Accept Blame when you deserve it

Have you ever been blamed? consistently, insistently, everyday, all the time. have you ever been poked, stoked, harassed for what has  occurred, has passed, and you have no idea  how to turn back the things of the past? have you been censured, held  responsible, made accountable that your actions of the past were irresponsible, that had it not been you this couldn't have happened,  had you not said this, this couldn't have happened, had you heard this, this couldn't have happened, had you chosen this, this couldn't have happened, had you listened to me, this couldn't have happened, had you, had you?The aspect of blame is very dangerous to the one who is held responsible, it is  emotional prison and it has potential to ruin ones emotional being for the rest his or her life.Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine who willingly decided to live and work in Mauritius sometime ago  and now she  is deciding to come home, and immediately she wants to regret ever leaving this place in the first place.The truth of the matter is that we can only learn from the past.,  its not meant to torment us for the rest of our lives.Easier said right?, no, its not meant to disgrace us entirely.Hold your head  up and move on, after all everyone makes a mistake.For those who like to blame, think again and please if you have made a mistake, quickly go through this, I have just done that::http://www.wikihow.com/Accept-Blame-when-You-Deserve-It