Its Sunday today and we are going to church, the church going looks like will come a routine now, I haven't been a church goer but I need to go, and im taking my son, he is excited.You see for some people, the church aspect comes in when nothing holds, when you wish to restore your senses at least from the religious point of view, and uplift your emotional competence. In another note, the blame game continues and I want to say without being messiaki that if you are in the habit of dwelling primarily on what your mate should be doing, you doom yourself to a life of misery.It will be so especially if you use your partners shortcomings as an excuse to abdicate ones own responsibility.Blame as a reminder, as a teaching lesson but don't dwell on it.These Quotations may help you, adapted at http://www.emotionalcompetency.com/blame.htm:
* “Success has many parents, but failure is an orphan.”
* “It is no use to blame the looking glass if your face is awry.”
* “When you blame others, you give up your power to change.”
* “Blame is where we try to park our grief.”
* “Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything.”
* “I screwed up.” ~ President Barack Obama
* “Don't blame the victim.” ~
* “By your stumbling, the world is perfected.”
Cheers
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